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When did you realize small things matter?

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 I was born in a middle class family & below poverty line I've been through the phase where 1. We don't have gas stove to cook food my mom used to cook food on oven. 2. We borrowed rice from neighbors sometimes. My Parents don't even ate sometimes.  3. My father took several thousands of rupees  for the education from money lenders and my mother pawn her jewelry's. We fear of rainy season because my house is full with rain water we used to keep utensils to catch rain water. 4. Me & my brother's never purchased clothes of more than ₹2000 5. We never brought shoes more than ₹1000 6. We had brought our first refrigerator in 2021 & Washing Machine in 2024. 7. I got my first smartphone in 2020, after becoming FTE 8. We couldn't afford a Bike, not even a second hand as my father was a small farmer/auto driver. 9. We brought our first bike in 2024 10. I never celebrated my b'day with my friends in college as I don't wanted to waste my father's m...

How to Become the Best Version of Yourself:

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 1. Workout: You can automatically look better than 80% of the population by hitting the gym and cutting out junk food. 2. Always keep your word: Do what you say you're going to do! Accomplish your goals, people will pay attention. 3. Control your emotions: Stop reacting to everyone and everything. People who can trigger your emotions have power over you. Choose wisely who you give this power to. 4. Start building your future: Do it alone, do it broke, do it scared, just do it. Learn to sell, learn to invest & chase that money. 5. Don't react: When you don't care or react to the BS, people get scared. They realize they have no control over your emotions. 6. Create solutions: Too many people complain. Create a monetizable solution. Sell it, and make money. 7. Control what you can control: Some shit you can't control, but you can always control how you react to it. Staying calm is a superpower of the strong. 8. Don't give fuck: When you don't care or react to ...

Cheat codes to know about life?

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  1. The less you give a damn about what other people think, the more powerful you are. 2. Porn, drugs, and alcohol have no advantages. You get poorer, dumber, and fatter as a result. 3. You still have time to enjoy a good time, but first work on improving your financial, physical, and emotional health. 4. Set out 40 minutes daily to learn a high-income skill, exercise, and meditate, and you'll be unstoppable. 5. Make your financial stability a top priority. Money makes life ten times easier. 6. Your life has been a complete mess because of your "I'll do it tomorrow" mentality. Act now for the future. 7. Have self-respect and never tolerate disrespect from others, not even from your friends. 8. Stop daydreaming about your future and put forth the effort to achieve your goals. Risking is better than regretting. 9. Stop staying in your comfort zone, it will only prevent you from growing. 10. Do not waste your energy worrying. Use your powers to think, learn, create, and...

What are some things a woman should know about men?

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The guy who likes you when you don't look the best, will keep liking you when makeup stops working on your face. When a guy looks at your breasts while talking, he isn't staring at them, he is just a little shy so his eyes are down. The guy who can't take a no for sex, or foreplay, or kiss or anything related, doesn't see you with him in the bigger picture of life. When a guy talks to you with respect or shows care, it doesn't mean that he is frustrated or is trying to woo you, that may be his nature. When a true lover asks you for nude photographs, you must straightaway know that only their lust for you is true. However rich a man you get, you can never earn that high self-respect which you get by being independent. A cool dude, who appears to be that by his styling or looks maybe much old fashioned than a traditional looking guy, and vice versa. A boy who cries isn't weak, he may be stronger than other guys. Never judge a guy through his promises, judge him th...

The 14 Types Of Guys Who Stay Single:?

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  1. Picky Choosers: Men with specific criteria for their ideal partner that can make it challenging to find a match.   2. Shy Guys: Men who struggle with self-esteem and initiating conversations with women.   3. Man-Child: Immature men looking for someone to cater to their needs without reciprocating in a relationship.   4. Players: Men who avoid commitment, preferring to flirt and keep their options open.   5. Bitter Men: Those who have been hurt in past relationships and carry negative emotions towards women.   6. Unattractive: Men who don't fit societal beauty standards and struggle to attract women.   7. Secretly Gay: Men who hide their true identities due to societal pressures and fear of judgment.   8. Lack Confidence: Men who lack self-belief and struggle to approach women due to past insecurities.   9. Too Nice : Men who are overly agreeable and end up in the friend zone rather than romantic re...

What are some of the mistakes of Indians that are destroying their financial lives?

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  Credit card . I have a friend who earns Rs.20,000 and spends lavishly with credit card. He buys expensive stuff just because  its on OFFER . By the end of month, he calls other friends for money to pay debt. That’s utter stupidity. When I ask him, he says he is living life. Think about it, why do credit card company exists? Its not because of people who use credit cards carefully,  its because of those who spend more than they can afford and end up paying a huge interest. Buying apartment with home loan . As soon as someone starts making decent money like Rs.50,000+, they start thinking about buying apartment. They get blinded by marketing strategies like   “don’t pay rent, pay EMI” , like EMI is same as rent. Home loan is a biggest liability and you will get  trapped for the next 20 - 30 years while Artificial Intelligence eats your job . Till you pay the loan, it is  NOT YOUR HOUSE . It is bank’s house. Agreement may have your name but it is legally own...

What are the best ways to improve your personality?

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  Groom yourself,  even if you're living alone . Keep your beard clean and trimmed. Girls may wax, if necessary. Always carry a wallet, Comb, Belt, Perfume, a pen with you. Workout at least 1 hour  a day, it's the least you could do for your body. This will keep your confidence up, your body healthy and your face free of pimples. Cover your mouth while sneezing, coughing, etc. Say ‘Sorry/Excuse me’ afterward. Invest in  your own  personal hygiene  like flossing your teeth, cleaning your mouth, wearing cologne. Speak a bit less and think before you speak because one wrong word can hurt your personality. Talk looking into the eyes of the other person. Be a man of  your  words  , If you promise to do something for someone, make sure you do it . Show respect  for other person’s opinion. Never tell a person he or she is wrong. Learn the  difference between Ego and Self-respect . There's a very thin line between them. Hustle as much as yo...